- Allow me to Switch: as a submissive/Dom switch, there is that need, fueled by Rose of course, to dominate. A few have said that as a switch, to thrive i need to be with another switch.
So far, that statement hasn’t proven true, BUT i could be wrong since i am quite new to this life. I will not/can not Dom just anyone. We have to sit up and feel a connection with a sub before we will attempt to Dom a submissive. The same goes for an eventual Dom.
You can have the best toys and be the best looking Dom out there, but if Rose and i don’t sit up and pay attention, then its tough titties for you bucko!
- Have Patience: Please have patience with me. It takes many tries for me to get something right, and don’t tell me, show me. I am a visual and physical learner, and until the muscle memory hits, i will make mistakes. I will forget a proper response, I will neglect to do a certain task; but it is not because i am being a brat, it is because it has not become habit for me yet.
- Regarding Service Oriented Submission: Service oriented submission is something that i have heard about, but not something that i have fully researched. In my previous dynamic i would wash his hair as well as his back and legs, and brush out his hair after a shower. I would bring him his shorts or socks as he asked me, but other than that, there really isn’t any formal service training that i have done.
- I will NOT be a slave: that is another hard limit and an expansion of the SOS though processes at the moment. I will gladly perform tasks for my Dom’s pleasure, but i will not be put in a space where i find myself degraded and humiliated, which also falls into objectification and being urinated or shat on. Aint gunna happen. I may nuzzle your leg or hand in thanks and devotion, but i am not going to kiss your boots, unless i am overcome with the need to plead for something or other and my words do not speak loudly enough for You to hear.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
What I Need Take 2
Okay obviously i just posted a little while ago, but i forgot a big one.
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I'm a switch and I don't think you need to just scene with other switches. I started off as a submissive with my ex-Mistress Sarah. Towards the end of our relationship she helped me explore my Domme side. It really helped that I had someone to guide me. Once I was single again I began exploring my Domme side with other submissives. If you're with another switch the fun part if being able to turn the tables on one another from time to time. You tie him/her up, tease and have your way with him/her. The next night he/she get's a little payback on you. It can be very fun.
ReplyDeleteThe key is just to find someone you have a connection with.
~Jessica~