So My Mother Figured It Out

Or at least part of it.  Came up when she asked me about a post regarding a fetish party this coming Saturday on FB, and in regards to my profile picture on the same site.

So between that and wearing my collar, she put a few small details together and asked me about it through FBchat.  i told her that this was the lifestyle that i chose to live and that although she does not understand it.. she has toaccept it. she doesnt understand the ramifications.. i told her that yes this is where my "master" comes into play but all that she needs to know he is teaching me what i want to learn and is also a great guy to hang out with and that is all she needs to know.

Though I have given her the choice/option to learn more and try to understand.

"Mom,

I know that the small discussion that we had this morning will and probably is worrying you, but let me assure you that what I have chosen to do is of my own volition, and J is into it with me and we support each other.  He and I are in this exploration together, and we are both seeking mentors that will help teach us what we need to know. I am not asking you to fully understand why I’m doing this; all I ask is that you accept me for who I have become.

The people in the lifestyle are as ‘normal’ as you, and how those in the BDSM lifestyle live IS considered ‘normal’ to them.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM

The above link is something that I would advise you to read, just so that you can understand the general dynamic of it.  I do what I do by my own free choice and free will. You don’t have to read it, but I hope that you do just to maybe understand a little bit more, and accept me for who I am.

I’m still your daughter Mom; I’m still me, that hasn’t changed in any way.  Just the dynamics of how I live my life and have a social life have changed a little. 

I understand that you don’t want talk about it in the house, and I promise you I won’t.

If you want to talk about it, we can, if not, I understand as well.

Love You Mom,

Me"

Some of my readers may not agree with how i worded it, or how i opened the discussion field, but it is how it is.

At least now she wont be sitting home and wondering what i'm getting myself into. I know i'm in a safe environment, so that is all that matters to me.