Clarification

A while back I was talking with a friend about Gor and the Gorean lifestyle.  Now I know one Fetlifer on my friends list identifies as Gorean as well as her Owner/Husband, and it works out for them. However I really don't think that it is something that I can fully submit to/allow as part of a D/s relationship.

The symbol of a "Kajira" or slave girl

I don't claim to know everything about the Gorean lifestyle and how the relationship works because like everything in BDSM (or at least that i have seen), it is a very fluid and flexible lifestyle. Everyone has their own set of rules, regulations and punishments for breaking them.

The one thing that I like about the Gorean ways is/are the slave girl positions.  Some are ones that you may have seen in the BDSM world, not necessarily the Gorean life alone (i have yet to find resources to support that fact, but if it can be provided please e-mail me or comment below). One that I have seen is the whipping position, or a variant of it for flogging and well... whippings.  I have taken the positing quite a few times for a few Doms; for receiving both a flogging/whipping as well as penetration.  I have gone to both Nadu and Tower for a Dom; nadu while in the privacy of a room, and Tower while at a fetish party so as to not impede the flow of foot traffic.

Who knows what will happen. 

~shrug~ 

I am young and have a lot to learn about this lifestyle.